When you feel completely resolved that your relationship is over,
and then,
something happens,
and its not over.
But nothing has changed.
The problem has not been resolved.
The finances have not improved.
Nothing has been worked out.
Nothing new.
Except that,
you both have decided
its not over,
and you have this rush of relief
come over you, and,
even though the problem is still there,
you are okay now
because the relationship is too.
That rush, that relief - is that one small piece of evidence, or POL (proof of love)? Is it one way that love shows itself? There will always be problems. There will always be financial difficulties. But when you wake up each day and you're still together - isn't it that consistency that creates a sense of stability that trust manifests from? And that is how love shows its face. It's the "for worse" in " for better or for worse". And one day you look at the life of your relationship and you say, "wow, look at everything we've been through."
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